Yu Mei, 46, lives in Foshan, Guangdong province and runs her own clothing store. The monotony of her daily work made her feel very tired but after work she had no one around to be with following her divorce four years ago. Her children worked in other cities to earn money and her friends all had their own families to take care of. Looking at her friends with their families, Yu Mei realized that it was time to find someone for her to be with.
She came across the dating site and within minutes Richard began talking to her. Richard, who lives in New York, USA, was fascinated by Yu Mei's profile on the website. He wrote to Yu Mei almost every day, sending out chat invitations. At first, Yu Mei didn’t often write back to Richard because of her poor English but Richard did not give up and insisted on carrying on talking to Yu Mei. Gradually, Yu Mei was moved by Richard's persistence and began to write back to him more often. She used dictionaries, mobile apps and so on to learn English and Richard also started to learn Chinese for Yu Mei. Richard told us that learning Chinese is hard but that he is willing to try hard for the one he loves.
Eventually they established a very stable relationship and last month Richard flew to China to meet his sweetheart. Both Yu Mei and Richard were very happy to see each other. Although their language communication is still a little difficult, their willingness to work hard to resolve that and to change for each other is very touching, isn't it?
May their love last forever.
Richard and Yu Mei
Tim is from America but both his parents come from China. They emigrated to America forty years ago and every year they go back to visit China to see their relatives. Tim is now working for a trading company and he lives and works in both and China and America.
Gui originally came from Hunan province but she now lives in Shenzhen where she also works for a trading company. Her major was business English.
Tim and Gui got to know each other at a business meeting. They had worked together for a while and right from the very start, Tim wanted to date Gui but she felt it would be difficult to maintain a relationship when they lived in different places and was also worried about what her parents would think.
But Tim was so very interested in Gui that he tried every way possible to keep in contact with her. Whenever he was free, he visited Gui and he told her that, just for her, he would stay in China and live in the same place as she did.
Finally Gui realised that Tim was serious about her and now they are married and living a wonderfully happy life together doing things they like to do, like travelling the world and seeing many new places.
Tim and Gui
I travel a lot to Asia for business. My business will likely move to Singapore at some point in the future and so it made sense to build friendships and networks on this site. I am not sure I was looking for a partner but then you often find something when you are not looking. I have not moved the HQ of my business to Singapore just yet but my wife has moved to Brisbane with me for now. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to meet my partner.
Rui is a 36-year-old Chinese woman who is generous, passionate and cheerful and who loves doing housework. She works as a sales manager for a public company and everyone around her praises her for her ability. But, what she wanted more than anything was to be with someone she loved and who loved her. She had only ever been in love twice and had never married. Rui felt that the men who asked her out were shallow and not serious about a relationship. She wanted to find a mature, thoughtful man to be her partner for life.
So, Rui signed up to the dating site and, although she could speak English so could communicate fluently, she still couldn't find the person she was looking for until she got to know Sam. Sam is 58 and lives in Houston, Texas. Looking at Sam’s profile, Rui saw that he met her requirements for a partner completely so she took the initiative to start to chat with him and, gradually, they fell in love.
In the face of true love, age is not a problem at all and, although there are 22 years between them, in their minds and in their attitude, they are the same age. Eventually, they decided to meet in person and Sam flew to China to find Rui. After meeting each other, they were even more certain that they had each found their partner for life.
Now they live together very happily.
Sam and Rui
I’ve just had my first phone conversation with Lui Chen and it was wonderful. Thank you for arranging it and thank you for bringing us together! Now I am more than sure that she is my one and only!
Xixi is from Changsha where she works as an English teacher for a school. She likes to try new things and believes that love is amazing.
Hasan is from the Philippines where he works as a driver. He says that before he met his Chinese girlfriend, life was really quiet.
They got to know each other through the dating site. Hasan said he came across the site by accident and when he registered, Xixi was the first girl he saw. Hasan said he is not rich, his salary barely covers his cost of living so even though he thought Xixi’s photo was very beautiful, he did not think she would like him. But, deep his deep heart, he felt so attracted by Xixi he tried to contact her and, to his surprise, she replied and said it was OK for them to keep in touch and get to know each other first and that is how their love for each began. After a few months of correspondence, when they met in real life, they fell in love instantly and now they are dating and things are going really well between them.
Xixi and Hasan
Here is my happy ever after story, here is my fairy tale. I signed up to AsianSingles2Day one day when I was bored. I don’t have too much trouble finding ladies, but I wanted to see what the rest of the world had to offer. I started chatting to some wonderful people and feel like I made friends. But, Lucy messaged me first. And now Lucy is my wife. She was a lot more confident than I thought I would find on the site. She knew what she wanted and she wanted me. I could not be any happier than I am right now.
Matthew saw Juan Zhang’s pictures on the website and started talking to her straight away.
Matthew is a chef and he’s very interested in Chinese food. He used to be doubtful about online dating but, when he saw Juan and started talking to her and getting to know her, he thought it was truly magical. He said that she’s perfect for him and he couldn’t ask for more. He’s really happy that he can enjoy Chinese food while dating Juan — it’s like a dream come true.
On the other hand, at first Juan had no interest in Matthew but eventually she could resist his chasing no longer and discovered that she did in fact find him very attractive. She said Matthew even learned Chinese for her and she knows how hard that is for an American. She said Matthew makes her laugh all the time.
Now they’re married and are so happy with each other. We wish them a wonderful life together.
Matthew and Juan Zhang
I came here now just for a second – to thank this site and its amazing crew and to bid farewell. Two years of being here, some really gorgeous ladies and here I am, a happy husband and a father-to-be! Luxian is all I have ever wanted and even more. Thank you, guys!
Marvin and Jing Wen started talking to each other on our website in 2014.
Their relationship has come a long way since then. At first, Jing Wen didn’t even know how to speak English so communication was a huge deal back then. She knew that she could not rely on our translators forever if she wanted to be with Marvin so she started to learn English from scratch. She told us that English was really difficult for her to learn but she still did it for Marvin and said it made her feel more connected to him and what he had to say.
As for Marvin, he had a wonderful family life until sadly his wife passed away which truly broke his heart and he was alone for a decade after that. He told us that he had never trusted online dating but, when he did decide to give it a shot, he met Jing Wen and totally fell in love with her. He said that she made him feel young again and very special. Ever since he lost his wife, he had never felt this way about anybody. He didn’t want to miss the chance to be with this gorgeous stunning lady so he went to China and now they are married.
We hope they have a wonderful life together and live happily ever after.
Marvin and Jing Wen
I am an Asian American living in South Dakota and there are very few people to meet out here in the wilds. I wanted my children to look like me – is it ok to say that? I have been using this site for the last few months and have been having a lot of fun talking to different ladies. I think I may have found my girl – Jan is everything I could wish for and more. We are talking about meeting up soon – I would even move to China to live with her – though I think she thinks the same about moving to me. It is amazing to think that soon I will be seeing her in person and talking about our future together.
Jeff, the US
Women in my country are always too busy for family and children. It is their right of course, but I’ve always dreamt of a lovely wife who would stay home and take care for me, our future kids and my dog. I spent some time here on this site searching and then I saw Xian. She had pictures with her dogs in her profile, she smiled so softly that I decided to give us a try. We are together for a year already and soon I will go to China to spend a vacation with my future wife. So thank you!
Ying is an outgoing and active woman who approaches life with a positive attitude. She believes in fate and that if two people are not destined to be together then their relationship will not last. Leonard is an American with a special interest in Chinese culture who has been fond of Chinese food and history since his childhood. He always wanted to find a Chinese lady to be his wife so he signed up to the dating site to try to find a traditional Chinese woman.
After he had read her profile and seen her photographs, Leonard was fascinated by Ying. He took the initiative and began to chat with Ying who, to his surprise, liked him very much. So, they chatted for two years during which time they talked a lot about their experiences of love, their ideal partner and their hopes and expectations for the future. Ying also taught Leonard some Chinese so they were able to happily chat to each other.
Their first meeting was at the airport. Ying went there with her younger sister, they both felt excited and happy. When Leonard and Ying finally met, they were more certain than ever that they had each found the person they were looking for. Ying invited Leonard to her home and cooked a lot of Chinese food for him. Leonard loved it. They agreed to be with each other for the rest of their days.
Let's wish them every happiness.
Leonard and Ying
I am a small farmer living on the coast. Each day I work outside and each day I came home and cooked for myself. I was happy enough I thought. Then, I met Yang and I realized that contentment is far more important than fleeting happiness. She helps me around the farm and she writes her beautiful stories. I found her on your site and her profile did not do enough to capture how lovely this woman is and how she could change my life. I wonder whether there are other men out there just getting by when they could be doing so much more with the help of your site.
Joseph, New Zealand
I am a fan of Chinese culture from childhood and always wanted to find a lovely Chinese lady. I even visited China myself but got nothing because of the language gap. But this site solved my problem! I’ve found Li here and interpreters helped us to talk. Now we chat every day and I have perfect motivation to learn Chinese – to impress her with my knowledge when I come to Shanghai.